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comparing your relationship to others
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The Trap of Comparing Your Relationship to Others & Anxiety

Comparing your relationship to others is something almost everyone does at some point, even people in healthy relationships who genuinely love their partner and feel satisfied with their own life. It usually doesn’t start with a big problem. It starts with a small moment — a picture, a post, or

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how intentional couples start the year strong
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How Intentional Couples Start the Year Strong & Strengthen Bonds

How intentional couples start the year strong is very important. Every January, we dust off our planners, download new habit trackers, and set bold intentions for the year ahead. We commit to eating better, saving more, exercising consistently, and advancing our careers. Goals, after all, are how we signal to

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The Five Minute Habit That Keeps Couples Close
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The Five Minute Habit That Keeps Couples Close and Strengthens Bonds

What is the five-minute habit that keeps couples close? Most couples talk every day. That’s not the same as connecting. The daily exchange usually sounds like this: “How was your day?” “Fine.” “How was yours?” “Fine.” And then you’re off to dinner, dishes, kids, emails, Netflix, bed. You shared words,

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The Four Types of Check-Ins Every Relationship Needs (and Why They Matter)

We all know communication is key in relationships, but saying that is like saying “hydration is important.” Sure, it’s true, but it doesn’t tell you how much water to drink or when you’re dehydrated. The same goes for emotional connection. It’s not just about talking; it’s about checking in. Regularly. Intentionally. And sometimes

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signs to rekindle your love as husband and wife
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Stop Running Your Relationship on Autopilot

Let’s be honest: long-term relationships can get a little… stale. It happens when we forget to stop running your relationship on autopilot and start being intentional again. Not because anything’s wrong, but because we stop doing what we used to do: date, flirt, surprise, talk like friends, laugh until our stomachs hurt.

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Stop Winging It_ Your Relationship Called and Wants a Strategy
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Stop Winging It: Your relationship called and wants a strategy

Here’s something no one tells you when you’re knee-deep in laundry, calendars, and “what do you want for dinner?”: relationships don’t thrive on love alone. In fact, it might be time to stop winging it: your relationship called and wants a strategy. If they did, you wouldn’t keep having the same

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Want a Stronger Relationship? Start Acting Like a Financial Team

Talking about money with your partner isn’t always romantic, but it is essential. Want a stronger relationship? Start acting like a financial team. And honestly, most couples aren’t given the tools to do it well. We either avoid the topic altogether or we only bring it up when something’s already wrong.

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Hostile Takeover at Home_ Use These CEO-Approved Conflict Moves
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Hostile Takeover at Home? Use These CEO-Approved Conflict Moves

Hostile takeover at home? Use these CEO-approved conflict moves to navigate tension like a leader. Arguments happen in every relationship. But the way we handle conflict can make or break long-term trust and connection. Interestingly, some of the most effective conflict resolution strategies come from the business world, places where high-stakes

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the ceo-approved way to stop miscommunication in your marriage
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The CEO-Approved Way to Stop Miscommunication in Your Marriage

Communication Strategies for Couples: Business Tools That Actually Work at Home The CEO-approved way to stop miscommunication in your marriage starts with learning to approach your relationship like a team. We often think about communication in marriage as something emotional and intuitive, but what if we borrowed a few techniques from

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Therapy vs. Coaching_ What is the Right Approach for You
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Therapy vs. Coaching: What is the right approach for you?

Therapy vs. coaching, which is the right one for me? This is a common question from individuals trying to decide whether the life challenges they are experiencing are at the level of needing a coach or needing a therapist. There is a lot of overlap between both practices, particularly if

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Harnessing the Power of Change
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Harnessing the Power of Change

Harnessing the power of change is about turning uncertainty into opportunity and growth. Change is a constant in life, and while it often brings new opportunities and growth, it can also trigger feelings of uncertainty, fear, and anxiety. Whether it’s switching careers, relocating to a new city, or adjusting to a

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Stoic, Authoritarian, & Detached (Sad)_ The Out-dated Norms of Leadership
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Stoic, Authoritarian, & Detached (SAD): The out-dated norms of leadership

In recent years, the landscape of leadership has undergone a significant transformation. Stoic, authoritarian, & detached (sad): the out-dated norms of leadership are being replaced by approaches that value empathy, collaboration, and emotional intelligence. Gone are the days when a commanding presence and an iron fist were considered the hallmarks of effective

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Cognitive Behavioral Strategies to Manage Change and Transition
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Cognitive Behavioral Strategies to Manage Change and Transition

Applying cognitive behavioral strategies to manage change and transition can transform overwhelming significant life events into opportunities for personal growth and overall well being. Change and transition are inevitable aspects of life that can often bring about feelings of uncertainty, stress, and anxiety. Whether it’s a career change, moving to a new city, or adapting

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embracing change as a pathway to growth and transformation
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Embracing Change as a Pathway to Growth and Transformation

Embracing change as a pathway to growth and transformation allows us to view life’s uncertainties with optimism and purpose. Change and transition are inevitable aspects of life. From shifting career paths to relocating to a new city or country, these transitions can often be challenging and unsettling. However, embracing change and

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how to handle career transitions
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Why Change and Transitions Are Hard

Why change and transitions are hard is something many people wonder about. Change and transitions are inevitable aspects of life that we all must face at various points in our lives. While change can bring about growth, new opportunities, and transformation, it can also be challenging and unsettling. Have you ever

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uncertainty the hidden power for businesses and teams
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Uncertainty: The Hidden Power For Businesses And Teams

Uncertainty: the hidden power for businesses and teams is at the center of many conversations today. Leaders keep telling me about the current uncertainty that is impacting their teams and organizations. Global unrest, polarized politics, changing laws, economic worries, climate changes, and social turbulence are all contributing to this widespread experience

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benefits of cognitive behavioral coaching in the workplace
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Leading With Resilience: The Transformative Benefits of Cognitive Behavioral Coaching In The Workplace

In an era marked by unprecedented challenges and constant change, effective leadership requires innovative approaches to support employees’ mental well-being. Leaders today must also be mindful of broader mental health considerations that impact both individuals and organizations. As we enter a year potentially filled with stress, uncertainty, conflict, anxiety, and

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the physiological rollercoaster of change
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The Physiological Rollercoaster of Change

The physiological rollercoaster of change is a constant in life, yet it often triggers a multitude of physiological reactions that can leave us feeling overwhelmed and stressed. Whether it’s a major life transition or a series of smaller adjustments, our bodies respond to change in various ways, from activating the

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my brain is being a jerk!
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My Brain is Being a Jerk!

My brain is being a jerk! The title of this blog post is an actual quote from a college-aged client who was tired of his brain working against him, and you might be able to relate. In fact, you might be one of the many students who experience stress daily, like

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The Strange Aftermath of Becoming a Best-Selling Author

When Marriage Inc. hit best-seller status, the messages started pouring in. Friends, family, colleagues, even acquaintances I hadn’t spoken to in years reached out with congratulations. They told me how proud they were of me, how huge an achievement this was, how exciting it must feel. I kept waiting for that feeling

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do you need a therapist or an executive coach
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Do You Need a Therapist or an Executive Coach?

4 questions to ask to determine if you would benefit most from therapy or coaching. Do you need a therapist or an executive coach? There is a lot of overlap between therapy and coaching. While both practices are goal-based, a therapist typically drives therapeutic goals while a coach acts as

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what to consider when vetting an executive coach
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What to Consider When Vetting an Executive Coach

Executive coaching is a tool to support your professional growth, and knowing what to consider when vetting an executive coach is essential. An executive coach can help in a multitude of situations that hinder or delay getting to where you want to be in your career. For some individuals, executive coaching

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Unlocking Success_ A guide to cognitive behavioral strategies for executives
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Unlocking Success: A Guide To Cognitive Behavioral Strategies For Executives

In the fast-paced and demanding world of executive leadership, success is often measured not just by business outcomes but also by personal fulfillment, stress management, and well-being. Cognitive Behavioral Strategies (CBS) offer a powerful toolkit for executives seeking to enhance their performance, decision-making, leadership skills, and overall satisfaction. These strategies

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lessons from a coach
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Lessons From A Coach

My daughter’s high school varsity volleyball team won the State Championships this past weekend. It was an amazing experience to watch, even more so because this group of girls is incredible. They support each other, LIKE each other, visibly and audibly have fun when warming up or playing together, and

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Seeing Joy
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Seeing Joy (originally published 1/2021)

Joy. Lately, I’ve heard from many patients, friends, and family that it is getting harder to “find joy”.  Students feel trapped in an endless timeline of Zoom classes. Families are getting on each other’s nerves. Parents multitasking their roles as employees and home school teachers. Individuals feel isolated. How do you

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Setting Goals For Executive Coaching
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Setting goals for executive coaching

You’ve decided to work with an executive coach to help with your career goals or professional development, and now you’re focused on setting goals for executive coaching. Now what? The platform of executive coaching is created from your goals, and establishing these goals is the first step towards your success. Executive

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The Boardroom Blueprint to a Lasting Love
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Why I Wrote Marriage Inc.: The Boardroom Blueprint to a Lasting Love

I’ve spent my career helping people figure out systems, strategy, and behavior in the workplace. Over time, I started noticing something: the same tools and approaches that make businesses succeed can also make relationships thrive. That idea became the spark for Marriage Inc. Think about it. We plan our careers, our

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Musterbation: Stop rubbing yourself the wrong way
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Musterbation: Stop Rubbing Yourself The Wrong Way

How often do you musterbate? What about the people you know? Some of them might musterbate a lot, maybe even daily. Now before you assume where this conversation is going, be sure you read that word correctly – MUSTerbate. While I wish I could take credit for creating this word,

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Embracing Feminine Leadership in Today's Business World
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Breaking the Mold: Embracing feminine leadership in today’s business world

For decades, the traditional male-oriented leadership model has dominated the business landscape, highlighting the need for embracing feminine leadership in today’s business world. However, as we move further into the 21st century, there is a growing recognition that leadership styles traditionally associated with femininity can offer unique advantages in the modern

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what is cognitive behavioral coaching
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What Is Cognitive Behavioral Coaching?

What is cognitive behavioral coaching? In the world of personal development and growth, various coaching methodologies have emerged to empower individuals in reaching their full potential, including cognitive behavioural coaching techniques that enhance self awareness and address negative beliefs. Among these, Cognitive Behavioral Coaching (CBC) stands out as a powerful approach

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The real reason the "Friends Reunion" made me cry
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The real reason the “Friends Reunion” made me cry

I have a confession, many of you might relate to – I am a HUGE fan of the show “Friends”. So when the reunion show was announced, I was excited. As ridiculous as it sounds, I started crying within the first few minutes, right around the time David Schwimmer walked

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Executive Coaching and Cultivating a Growth Mindset in Leaders
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Executive Coaching and Cultivating a Growth Mindset in Leaders

In the ever-evolving landscape of the professional world, executive coaching and cultivating a growth mindset in leaders have become hallmarks of success. The pursuit of continuous improvement and personal development has become a defining trait of effective leadership. One transformative tool that has gained prominence in recent years is executive coaching. Beyond

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how to avoid the amygdala hijack_ harnessing executive coaching for optimal functioning in leaders
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How to Avoid the Amygdala Hijack: Harnessing executive coaching for optimal functioning in leaders

In the fast-paced and competitive landscape of today’s business world, executives often find themselves navigating complex challenges that demand both emotional intelligence and strategic thinking, especially when learning how to avoid the amygdala hijack: harnessing executive coaching for optimal functioning in leaders. The brain’s amygdala, a key player in processing

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What in the Heck Is a Couples Coach?

Not long ago, someone commented on one of my TikTok videos: “What in the heck is a couples coach? This isn’t something anybody can coach. Either you’re a couple or not.” It’s a fair question. At first glance, the idea of couples coaching might sound unnecessary—or even impossible. But I responded

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